Dating too much too fast
Otherwise, you miss out on an important facet of the other person and discovering how he or she responds to the Lord.
Wait to talk about a future together until you’ve taken the time to build a foundation of commitment and trust.
We are created by God to connect and yearn for relationship with one another. It’s only natural that as you get to know and like someone, that you desire for them to know and like the you.
I was 21 years old when I drove from Texas to Colorado with my friend Christie to attend the wedding of a friend from Japan. Unbeknownst to me that very evening my future husband sat across the dinner table from me.
At the reception we discovered with delight that the bride’s mother had arranged to seat all the single people at the same dinner table so we could “mingle.” “Who knows what might happen? It wasn’t long before we began a long-distance courtship, got engaged, and then married.
And what I also know now is that it was a smart move.
As humans we all have the desire to know and be known by others.
They are lovingly arranged in chronological order and tucked away in a shoebox in our storage shed.